Unfortunately ... sometimes cheating is not an option but a ... must … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
Unfortunately ... sometimes cheating is not an option but a ... must … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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Someone told me this ugly theory … about 25 years ago … and i totally disliked it.
I was actually so annoyed of it … that i started to hate my friend from that time for his words.
Later on … i realized i was too dogmatic, but also too idealistic at that age … when i was just a silly teenager.
And … even if i continued to be an idealistic person … seeing over the years so many people cheating … i realized that the things are different than what i thought.
First of all i was asking myself why it happens as those people to cheat … but the real answer came to me when i cheated … but also was cheated.
The experience itself revealed very clear to me what was going on … without being needed anymore to ask or to study someone else.
I suddenly realized that the human being that is doing that … is not feeling anymore … that is getting what wants from the relationship is involved in.
And as the relationship to survive … the medicine becomes the act of … cheating.
Sounds even as a silly paradox, but that person that we dogmatically define as dishonest … dominated by evil forces etc etc is simple not feeling alive anymore …. and all that wants is simple … to survive till the moment when the old relationship will be somehow reborned.
The problem is that the magic is not appearing anymore … or if it appears is appearing only on the other side of the story …. and we suddenly fall in love with the other person.
We cheat … to survive in an old relationship that we don’t like anymore by such a long time … but it might happen even to become happy again … simple by feeling amazing emotions with the new person.
We start to even wonder why we haven’t done this long time before … but too many people around … judge us in such a disgusting way.
We forgot about dogmatism … but we become dogmatic again …. just by caring about what they think.
But all those people that defined the people that practice the cheating … never thought … not even for a second … that actually cheating was not an option … but a must … just to feel alive one more time.
Most probably … we will never understand the evil side of the human being unless we … experience it.
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